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Pub #2193:
Leaving drinks…what a fucking nightmare, especially when you are leaving the job to get away from one or more of your cherished colleagues. So, I looked to my former colleagues (many of whom cut short their academic careers to escape the same sociopath for whose sake I am taking my leave). Some, closer to London, were keen to meet up but that would require the homeward commute THEN making my way back to the house.
In Oxford, that left Helena as the sole soul that could help me wipe that turd off my soles (or soul … 6 of one, half-dozen of the other). If I left anyone out that meets the criterium (I refuse to drink with anyone that drinks with Joe), my humble apologies.
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We made a start at 1855 Wine Bar, and I took minimal ribbing for it being so outrageously posh (I’ve run out of dives not already on the map) and, despite the hewn timber all around, expensive. I bought the round here, a very nice Italian bottle.
We compartmentalized the conversation into My New Job, current group members we both know, group members from the past (and, as we eventually concluded, the human race), running, canoeing, the ills of aging parents (hers and Jackie’s as mine, we established long ago, are happily burning in hell), and our plans for the future despite our future being so obviously finite — at least, we both seem to see the little light we are all eventually absorbed into starting to increase in diameter.
We caught the end of Wine O’Clock (25% off, so about what the plonk should cost) for another glass apiece, then went toward Vine which is closer to her house and my bus stop and which was closed when we arrived. Shit. Second bottle and some chips at the Cowley Retreat and we were able to maintain a vigourous chat right up to the moment I realised I had to sprint to make the last coach home. Success!
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